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5-14Mia: Ever get the feeling you're just, like, wading through mud at work? You know, doing stuff that feels totally pointless? Welcome to our chat about kicking workplace stress to the curb – and get this, apparently colleague appreciation is your secret weapon!
Mars: Totally. There's actually a fancy term for that feeling – embitterment. It's when you're stuck with stuff that feels unfair, unnecessary... and you just kinda stew in it.
Mia: Embitterment? So it's not just being annoyed for, like, five minutes. It's a whole... thing?
Mars: Oh yeah, it's a cycle. Imagine you get landed with some ridiculous task, right? Boom, embitterment hits. Then you can't stop thinking about it, like a broken record playing all the reasons it sucks. Next thing you know, you're taking that stress home with you, ruining your Netflix night!
Mia: Ugh, I've been there. My brain just goes into hamster wheel mode. But, okay – here’s the twist! Apparently, there's something that can actually break that cycle: appreciation from your colleagues. Seriously?
Mars: Seriously! Think of it like a shock absorber. Someone says, Hey, thanks for catching that mistake, or I really admire how you handled that client – mood instantly shifts, right? That little boost kinda cancels out the sting of those, shall we say, illegitimate tasks.
Mia: Illegitimate tasks? Sounds like something out of a spy movie or something. What are we talking about here?
Mars: Haha! In our world, it just means stuff that doesn’t really fit your role or just feels pointless. There was this study, tracked people in accounting and finance for five days. Every time they felt embittered, they also noted if their peers showed them any gratitude. Turns out, those thank-yous were a serious buffer against stress.
Mia: So even just a quick great job or you saved the day actually makes a difference?
Mars: Huge difference! It’s like adding salt to a dish – just a tiny pinch can totally change the flavor. Professor George Michaelides even said, Fostering a culture of appreciation among colleagues can serve as a protective factor, helping employees cope with workplace stress.
Mia: Okay, I love that. But what does a company *actually do* with this info? Like, how do you make it happen?
Mars: Well, for starters, train your team to give genuine shout-outs. Maybe a weekly gratitude round at meetings, or even just digital high-fives in the company chat. And managers should rethink how they assign tasks – ask themselves, Is this a reasonable task for this person?
Mia: Right, right. But what about regular folks like you and me?
Mars: Easy. Make it a habit. Drop a quick note in a coworker’s inbox: Your input on that presentation was clutch! Or leave a sticky note: Thanks for being awesome! Small gestures, big impact. Think of it like those pay it forward coffee lines – it just makes everyone's day a little brighter.
Mia: Kind of like those free sample days at the supermarket – you don't expect it, but it makes the whole shopping trip better.
Mars: Exactly! Those little moments of recognition soak up a surprising amount of negativity.
Mia: Alright, so to wrap it up – appreciation is basically our secret weapon against feeling bogged down and stressed out at work. Next time you see someone doing a great job, just say it out loud!
Mars: Couldn't agree more. A little thanks goes a long way – at work and, honestly, everywhere else.